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To get the most out of the exercises in this book, trainees’ skill building should be inte-
grated with knowledge of schema therapy (ST) theory. ST is a comprehensive approach
in which therapists’ interventions are guided by a case conceptualization that rests on
several concepts. Therefore, knowledge of these concepts and their relationship to
each other is integral to providing effective ST. This appendix provides an overview of
some major ST concepts. We recommend that trainees study these and reflect on their
importance for clinical practice and, more specifically, their relationship to the skills
practiced in this book.
Association of Unmet Core Childhood Needs and Early Maladaptive
Schemas
The following is a list of unmet childhood needs, each of which corresponds with a set
of early maladaptive schemas.
Unmet Core Childhood Needs
1. Safe attachment: love, validation, protection, acceptance
2. Free expression of emotions and needs
3. Playfulness, spontaneity
4. Autonomy, competence, sense of identity
5. Realistic limits, self-control
Early Maladaptive Schemas
1. Disconnection and rejection
Emotional deprivation
Defectiveness/shame
Mistrust/abuse
Social isolation/alienation
Abandonment/instability
Overview of Schema
Therapy Concepts
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2. Other directedness
Approval seeking/recognition seeking
Subjugation
Self-sacrifice
3. Overvigilance and inhibition
Negativity/pessimism
Emotional inhibition
Unrelenting standards
Punitiveness
4. Impaired autonomy and performance
Enmeshment/undeveloped self
Failure
Vulnerability to harm/illness
Dependence/incompetence
5. Impaired limits
Insufficient self-control/self-discipline
Entitlement/grandiosity
Descriptions of Schema Modes
Healthy modes: Adaptive functioning modes that are associated with a sense of
fulfillment and well-being
Happy or contented child
Healthy adult
Demanding/punitive inner critic modes: Internalized negative aspects from early
caregivers. Includes punishing and harsh messages (punitive critic) and setting
unreachable expectations and standards (demanding critic)
Punitive critic
Demanding critic
Maladaptive coping modes: Overused survival strategies that are triggered when
schemas related to trauma and unmet needs are activated. These include flight
(avoidance), fight (overcompensation), and freeze (surrender).
Avoidant protector
Overcompensator
Compliant surrenderer
Innate child modes: Schema-triggered reactions in adulthood related to childhood
unmet needs
Vulnerable child
Impulsive or undisciplined child
Angry child
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Unmet Core Childhood Needs and Their Associated Schema
Modes
Lack of secure attachment
Vulnerable child: The experience of intense loneliness, fear anxiety, sadness
Lack of validation of feelings and needs, guidance, self-control, and realistic limits
Angry child: Anger due to perceived unfair treatment or unmet needs
Impulsive/undisciplined child: Reactively acts on personal desires, with no regard
to other’s needs or limits
Rejection and suppression of any core need, in particular love, validation, praise,
acceptance, and guidance
Punitive critic: Harshly punishes and rejects self
Demanding critic: Pressures self to achieve unreasonably high expectations
Any unmet childhood need can produce Maladaptive Coping Modes
Avoidant protector: Breaks relational connections, isolates, physically avoids,
withdraws, dissociates
Overcompensator: Does the opposite of the early maladaptive schema as a cop-
ing style to counterattack and control; may be somewhat adaptive at times (e.g.,
perfectionistic overcontroller at work)
Compliant surrender: Acts as if the schema is true, surrendering to it. For example,
in the defectiveness/shame schema, gives up and accepts self as without worth
Any unmet childhood need can lead to an underdeveloped healthy adult mode
Healthy adult (underdeveloped): Meets one’s needs in a healthy and mature
manner, enjoying pleasures, maintaining healthy bonds, and fulfilling adult life
requirements