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ACTIVITY #5: Large group discussion / Personal Boundaries Circle
Black: Teacher Information / Green: Classroom Discussion
The “Empowering God’s Children” video introduces the topic of personal boundaries and boundary safety. The video defines
personal boundaries, explains: why boundaries are important; and teaches the students’ the need to respect their own boundaries
and the boundaries of others. The video also empowers the children to know what to do and who to tell if someone makes them
feel uncomfortable, scared, or confused.
Teacher: Below are the vocabulary terms from the video. Review with the class the definitions and discuss examples for
clarity.
Personal Boundaries - are the rules, or limits that we create to identify reasonable, safe and permissible ways
for people to behave towards us, and others. Personal boundaries include physical, emotional, mental and
material limits we set for what we will accept from another person in either words or actions. Describe a
physical boundary that you have set for yourself.
Bullying – when someone intentionally and repeatedly does or says something that hurts, harms or humiliates
you either physically or emotionally, this can happen in person, in a chatroom, a text and online. How does
bullying violate personal boundaries?
Trusted Adult – is an adult you feel confident and comfortable approaching about personal problems,
uncomfortable questions, and sensitive situations and issues. Who are some of the adults you trust? Why do
you trust them?
Cyber-bullying - is using any digital device to send, post, or share negative, harmful, false, or mean content
about someone else. This includes sharing personal or private information about someone else causing
embarrassment or humiliation. Is cyber-bullying dangerous? Give an example.
Safety Rules – in the video the personal safety rules reminded you to “Say No!” “Get Way!” “Immediately
Tell a Parent or Safe Adult!” and remember, “It’s Never Your Fault!” These rules will give you the power to
keep yourself safe if you remember to always follow them. How does following the Safety Rules keep you
safe?
ACTIVITY #2: VIRTUS® Introductory Video “Empowering God’s Children” / Discussion (10 minutes)
Year 2: Boundaries and Bullying Grades 6 - 8