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Pastor J. R. Miller said, “Nothing is more pitiful—than a life which is made to be strong, kingly,
noble, calm, and peaceful—but which is, instead, the slave of every excitement, every temper,
every resentment, every appetite and passion.”
How many people have never fulfilled their potential because of a lack of self-control? How
many people’s lives have been cut short by a lack of self-control? How many people have
destroyed their bodies because of a lack of self-control? How many people have wrecked their
finances, destroyed their families, lost their jobs, ruined their careers, all because they lacked
self-control?
Self-control is about freedom. Freedom is not the liberty to do whatever you want, but the
strength to make yourself do what you should do, even when you don’t feel like it. You are a
slave to whatever controls you. If you don’t develop self-control, then you will always be a
slave to your mood, to your emotions, to your feelings, to your desires.
WHY DO WE NEED SELF-CONTROL?
Jesus said in John 10:10 that He came to give you an abundant life. But an abundant life is not
possible without self-control. To live an abundant life, you must exercise self-control in the
following areas.
1. You need self-control to master your mood. To be controlled by your commitments
and values rather than your emotions. Proverbs 25:28 (TLB) “A man without self-
control is as defenseless as a city with broken-down walls.”
2. Your need self-control to watch your words. Proverbs 13:3 (NIV) “Those who guard
their lips preserve their lives, but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.”
3. You need self-control to restrain your reactions. Proverbs 19:11 (GNT) “If you are
sensible, you will control your temper. When someone wrongs you, it is a great virtue to
ignore it.” Pastor Rick Warren said, “A lot of potential influence can be cut short by a
short temper.”
4. You need self-control tame your thoughts. Romans 13:14 (NIV) “Rather, clothe
yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires
of the flesh.” All sin begins in the mind. If you can’t control your thought-life, then you
will not be able to control your actions.
5. You need to self-control to stick to your schedule. Pastor Rick Warren said, “If you
don’t determine how you will spend your time, you can be sure that others will decide
for you. You’ll have to become a great steward of time to be successful in life.”